Weddings, equipment failures, industry news, and awesome sunrises #amwriting

This last week has been a productive week for writing despite the irritations. Yet, those bumps were quickly ironed out, and no one died.

Something we don’t think about when we’re young and healthy is that the equipment disabled people rely on can fail. The first thing that failed this week was his little walker for getting around in indoor spaces—I’ve named it R2D2 since it’s perfect for serving drinks on the space-yacht that is our home.

R2 is ideal for getting around inside restaurants and theaters. Unfortunately, one of the screws holding the bar that keeps it from collapsing while my husband is using it lost the washer and nut, so I spent the weekend making sure the screw stayed where it was supposed to, which was distracting. Fortunately, Amazon carries bolts, nuts, and washers and ships them overnight and it is now repaired.

Then, there was assembling the paperwork for getting our will redone, this time including a durable power of attorney and an advance healthcare directive. When we had our will made twenty years ago, it was a simple thing, merely a list of our assets, rights of survivorship, and on the survivor’s death, dividing what is left equally among our blended family of five children.

This time, we had to fill out a pre-appointment questionnaire that asked questions I felt were intrusive and had no bearing on the disposition of our not-so-vast fortune.

I became a bit testy.

My husband, ever a man of common sense, talked me into a more rational frame of mind. He explained we need to ensure no random claims arise that could hold up the disposition of any $$ and intellectual properties we might leave our children.

So, we had to supply dates and names of previous marriages and divorces—which, in my case, involved getting copies of three divorce decrees from the county. (I’ve had a life, and while I could have done some things differently, I don’t regret it for a moment.)

My Gramma Ethel (born in 1909) stayed with me when I was going through some hard times, watching my kids while I worked two jobs. My grandmother, bless her, was a cleaning tornado. She threw things like Christmas cards and old legal documents out when she cleaned—without asking first. These things were over and done in her mind, so why keep junk you don’t need? She hated things that took up space and gathered dust.

It was a trivial failing. Every evening, I came home to a clean house, a hot meal, and happy children. She was the best, and I valued her wisdom and unconditional love more than I can say. She still influences me in all the best ways. (Except I don’t clean house as well as she did.)

But back to equipment failures. The next one is slightly hilarious–my husband’s “ejector chair” suddenly failed to eject. Greg is 6’3” and is not overweight. But he’s a big man. Trying to get him out of the chair stuck in the reclined position was complicated and entertaining. I could hardly breathe for laughing.

Just so you know, the chair does not move when it doesn’t have power, or if the controller fails, which is what happened.

He sleeps much of the night in that chair, and it enables him to be more mobile in his daily life. But the people at the store where we purchased it came to our home and fixed it immediately, so Grandpa is back in business.

We attended our nephew’s wedding on Friday—a happy day for the family. It was beautiful, romantic, and everything a wedding should be. It was held in a local venue, a barn converted to host large gatherings. Greg and I are especially close to this nephew, as he spent part of a summer with us when his brother was seriously injured in an off-road vehicle accident, and his parents had to make an emergency trip to Oklahoma.

(Getting R2 folded and stowed in my sister-in-law’s trunk – and out again – is where the loose screw became a bit of a pain. But as I mentioned above, the wedding wasn’t held in Midsomer County, so nobody died.)

But let’s talk about sunrises—oh my goodness. One thing I love about our apartment is the view of the morning sky. Some sunrises are spectacular, and I find a reason to see every sunrise I can. This morning, clouds were moving in, and the eastern horizon was lit with crimson fire—a sight that only lasted briefly. Still, brief though it was, remembering it makes me glad to be alive.

But enough chit-chat about me. Let’s talk about writing. This week, I made headway on a first draft I had set aside a year or so ago because I was stuck at the 30,000-word point. I changed the narrative tense from close third person omniscient to first person present tense for the protagonist and third person present tense for the side characters. That change kickstarted things and the plot is unfolding as it should.

I always have several projects in the works, so when creativity fails in one, I move on to another. I have been making the loose outline for my NaNoWriMo project to finish the second half of a duology.

And finally, Greg and I will be attending the Pacific Northwest Writers Conference in Seattle on Wednesday. I attend this conference every year. I benefit from the presentations as much as the networking. I will talk more about the two conferences of this month next week.

And now for a bit of publishing industry news:

We’re all trying to get our books noticed, and sometimes the blurb on the back of the book isn’t enough, so we turn to other authors who might be willing to give us an endorsement we can print on the cover or use on our Amazon page. For an interesting article on the usefulness (or not) of author endorsements, I recommend ‘A Plague on the Industry’: Book Publishing’s Broken Blurb System (msn.com).

An excellent article on creativity and AI is AI vs human: the publishing industry’s way through the AI revolution (msn.com).

If you haven’t watched “The Other Black Girl,” you might be interested in this article: Hulu thriller ‘The Other Black Girl’ mocks publishing industry: review (msn.com).

Finally, for an article on diversity and equal representation, I heartily recommend Latino Coalition Launched to Boost Latino Representation in the Publishing Industry – Latin Heat.

So, that’s the way the week was at Casa del Jasperson. May the week ahead be filled with all the good things, and may your words flow freely! What follows is an amazing image of sunrise, found on Wikimedia Commons just for you.

Sunrise at Lake Laanemaa at Orkjärve Nature Reserve, Estonia

Credits and Attributions:

IMAGE: Sunrise at Lake Laanemaa at Orkjärve Nature Reserve, Estonia.  Wikimedia Commons contributors, “File:Laanemaa järv Orkjärve looduskaitsealal.jpg,” Wikimedia Commons, https://commons.wikimedia.org/w/index.php?title=File:Laanemaa_j%C3%A4rv_Orkj%C3%A4rve_looduskaitsealal.jpg&oldid=801967887 (accessed September 17, 2023).